Hi
Today my dp got really angry. He was holding out baby in the kitchen and she was a bit grisly (I was upstairs with our 4yo). Our cats were pestering to be fed, something fell on the floor and then I heard him crashing around, I think he threw a box of cat food on the floor. He was still holding the baby and really angry trying to open the door to push the cats out as they were pestering still. I was scared for our baby and calmly asked him to pass her to me, after two or three requests he did so. I took her to another room with our four year old and waited. He started grabbing furniture that is due to go to the tip and crashing it outside.
A few minutes later I asked him if he was ok in a calm voice but I was scared and wanted to cry. He said yes but he can't deal with the pressure of so much to do (he works long hours, we moved house recently so lots of boxes everywhere etc, some financial issues). I said that he needs to be calm and if he does that again I'll call the police.
We've split up in the past partly due to this anger, it doesn't show often but I don't find it acceptable, he also swears in front of the children if he bumps his head etc.
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Lionsandmonkeys · 13/02/2016 17:07
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