DD's in the last year of primary school. The subject of 'boyfriends' and girlfriends' has arisen. I'm not overjoyed, but can see that it will happen whether I like it or not, but see that it's also a good opportunity to begin to talk about relationships in an age appropriate way.
Anyway, this is the second time DD has been 'asked out'. The first time a girl in her class decided she liked the boy who liked my DD so she pursued him and now goes out with him. DD not really bothered.
Anyway, DD gets 'asked out' again by another boy. This boy is very sweet and calls round to check if DD is OK if she's off sick and he invited her to walk their dog (with his parents and baby brother over Christmas). It's all very sweet.
Anyway, the girl in her class has decided she likes this boy now and has set her sights on him. Luckily DD is laughing it off. It makes me wonder what kind of woman she'll grow into, though.
Incidentally, this girl has done this for the last couple of years to DD with female friendships, too. Anyone DD gets close to, this girl wades right in and it follows the above pattern.
DD and I have talked about it (she's mostly upset about losing the female friends). It's difficult to know how to handle it.
Has anyone else's DC's gone through something similar and how did it work out?
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withaspongeandarustyspanner · 04/02/2016 06:07
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