I went to my GP because I was being abused by my husband and would be covered in bruises and I had confided in him before. This time the doctor was very angry and I don't really know why and he was abrupt. So I just showed him my bruises and he recorded it in my notes. I got the feeling that I should not have bothered him.
I was on my period and in pain as I stood up I had a spasm, so I told him and he just stared at me and said that ''I am always making him do things he does not want to do and he will have to examine me.'' I told him he could not examine me as I was on my period, he did not listen to me and asked me to take my underwear off and then told me to sort myself out, it was not an internal but I felt violated. When I asked why he had to examine me he said it was to exclude acute appendicitis. I think he just did it because he could and not because he needed to, I later found out he had not recorded the exam in my notes.
It took me years to report him to the GMC but he just told them a pack of lies and often wonder if he will do it to another woman. I thought he was a kind man but now I think he took advantage of my vulnerability.
Has this happen to anyone else?
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Abused by my GP- and left reeling and feeling confused
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Iwaswondering1 · 08/01/2016 07:25
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