Hi
Sorry I'm probably being over sensitive but i appreciate your thoughts. Just feel constantly let down and put down by DP.
I got tipsy a few weeks ago and told some close friends something and felt really awful as I wasn't supposed to say anything, it was about a friend but it was in a caring way. Sorry that probably doesn't make sense. Anyway I had such anxiety about it all. I said to my DP that I was so worried about it and it was churning me up inside, (in hindsight it's not too bad). He said well I don't know why you said it I was trying to stop you. I felt so hurt by him. I said well that's the last time I come to you for reassurance.
Another time I was chatting about whether to work one afternoon a week, he says I don't have to, I have an open job (which I'm slowly building a career out of, around small children) and can pick up work as and when, I was trying to discuss childcare costs etc and he said it's hardly earning a living. I felt quite hurt as I've been trying to build up a career, even though I have low self esteem.
Is he unsupportive or am I just ultra sensitive? I can't think of other examples but it's not just a few times he has made me feel
Like this.
Can u wise MNetters help?
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Pigzoom · 06/01/2016 22:15
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