So first time on here.....8 months separated from my husband. Toughest Christmas ever. Actually toughest year ever, but I got up and carried on everyday, just cried lots in the toilets and the car and in bed....just not in public.....
Husband is a mind messer. He had an affair 5 years ago, we worked through it....I was working away etc etc. We had a child nearly 4 and in May he announced he'd had enough and left. Turns out he'd been 'kissing' a colleague the night before he told me he wanted a divorce. He constantly pulls and pushes me away, says he's not certain he wants a divorce but then never wants to do anything to work on things. I get strength to say leave me alone and then he tries to stop me and says he loves me. One minute I'm strong, the next weak. I hate being away from my child especially as I work full time and carry that guilt anyway this just adds more to it!
I feel so pathetic, trouble is lots of this is I think because that's actually the opposite of what I am. In that I have a really good job which I know has been an issue for him e.g. Me earning more. I just believe in family and marriage and think people give up too easily and have fairytale expectations but perhaps I just have low ones... Anyone out there in my boat? X
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Goodgirl77 · 03/01/2016 21:03
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