(Ignore my username, its very old, I don't know how to change it).
I'm in a ldr (45 minutes drive but neither of us can move due to complex family situations. ) been together 3 years, very happy. He is really lovely, kids get on, no problems between us at all. The only bone of contention is that we don't get to see each other as often as we'd like.
As we live in different towns, we both have our own lives as well as the life we share when we can. This is fine, it's good and healthy to have separate friends and interests.
The problem is, I feel threatened by a single female friend of his. Their kids are friends and do activities together, have sleepovers at each other's etc. I've met her, she's nice, and I can see how good a match she'd be for bf. They see each other at activities, message each other about kid stuff. I guess I feel threatened as I'm not part of that circle, I can see how their lives would fit together better than ours do.
When I talk to bf about it he says she's just his kids mates mum, he loves me, there's nothing to be worried about, and I have no reason to not trust him. But I still feel threatened by her, like she's waiting in the wings for if we split up.
Wwyd? How would you handle this? How would you feel about it?
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how to handle this? would you feel threatened?
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ridiculoussingle · 31/12/2015 10:41
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