Hi all I'm not sure where to start really but I'm looking for some words of advice and handing really. My dp and I broke up 3 months ago he finished it in what was in hindsight an irrational temper and as a result at the time I wouldn't take him back afterwards when he realised his mistake and pleaded. During the passed months we've had constant contact instigated on both parts and seen each other a few times.
Anyway time has passed and I've had time to think and try and get over him but I just can't. I've thought about our relationship over and over and whilst there were plenty of difficult times there were also plenty of good and I realise how much we both took each other for granted and eventually wore each other out. I've been in so much pain since the split and love him so much and just want to try and work things out with him. He has previously asked me to try again and I was in such a bad place I told him I wanted to but didn't know how to make things better.
I've since had time to breath think and I've approached him but he now says he doesn't junk he wants to go back, I'm heartbroken.
He tells me he stills loves me cares for me and can stop thinking of me. Do I still pursue this as he is hesitant in case of getting hurt or am I being foolish and he just doesn't want me anymore?
My heart feels like it's literally breaking and I can think of nothing else but him. It's ridiculous! I feel like a teenager (I'm far from ).
Anyway I guess what I'm after is some words of advice on how to go forward. Is it worth another shot of trying to talk to him about us or do I just give up? What should my approach be? If i should just move on how do I really do this, it feels as if I've lost a limb.
Kind (but honest) replies please.
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Feellikeafoolinlove · 28/11/2015 15:30
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