So my partner of 4 years and father to my 2 children and child who's due in less than two weeks is currently under investigation via his GP for COPD (Chronic obstructive pulmonary disease) and finds it hard to breathe even when simply talking!!!!
The news that this was likely along with his severe asthma the news scared him and finally we walked out of the doctors and he throws his fags away and applied at the gym to "start a fresh". He refused a take away for tea and cooked himself veg ect.. So he was for once being responsible for his health.. So I thought..
I nipped into the shop just now after the school run to get some milk. The shop owner asks me what my husbands last name is.. I tell him and he hands me my partners bank card and said.. "Here you go, he nipped in for his fags this morning before work but left his card here by accident" he's supposed to be getting his official diagnosis next week and has been almost begged by his GP and family to at least not smoke as GP said that it could very well take your life sooner than you want it to!!
He's so selfish, he can't run around with the kids because he can't breathe but he can use our family money to smoke and poised his body more.
Am I being over the top??
After crying my eyes out for the last month, being quite unwell myself at the min, scared and sorry for him being told such frightening news, running around after him at 8/9 months pregnant to ensure I look after him more and so he can rest, cook his dinner even if I can bearly stand with my dislodged pelvis. Looking after our children, running him baths, getting his mess ready bla bla bla bla the list goes on..
And the whole time he is smoking??????
I'm fuming and feel sorry for our kids..
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GeorgiaT2468 · 27/11/2015 09:10
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