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Have I creeped her out, avoiding walking past me?

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Apprac · 15/10/2015 19:28

Im guessing she finds me creepy or similar? A girl seems to deliberatly avoid walking past me. she's done it in the past by which i mean she speeds up to avoid us passing. she also reaches out when passing something almost like a nervous thing so she can turn away quickly and walk away. Another time she walked past and looked down and fiddled with the zip on her jacket then she deliberatly avoided walking past me by going the long way around. Iam attracted to her maybe she dont feel the same obviously lol
somedays she avoids eye contact like looks the other way when i look at her, when I look at her she won't look at me. But then today she was totally different talking with full eye contact but she still looks at this other guy much more and avoids me when in conversation. Anyway later that day I did stare at her a few times, in which I mean I looked at her obviously she saw me but didn't look backend generally looked at the floor. After this she changed. She walked past once messing with the zip on her jacket, then walked the long way round to avoid walking past me. At the end of the day she was around but she was facing the opposite way as I said goodbye, she replied. she moved again i could see her looking at the other guy whilst waving to him, she then carried on the direction i was going waved to me but didn't even look at me, but just looked elsewhere whilst she put her hand up. I find this quite rude? She doesn't seem to have a problem looking at the other guy, but like even in conversation she will very rarely look at me as if I don't exist.
Girls, should I just back away and avoid looking at her completely?

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BSites · 15/10/2015 19:30

Yes.

molyholy · 15/10/2015 19:31

Eh Confused

SmokingGun · 15/10/2015 19:32

I love OP's that even after reading 3 times, you still have absolutely no idea what's going Grin

Imgivinguponyou · 15/10/2015 19:32

If you think you have creeped her out, you probably have.

molyholy · 15/10/2015 19:33

Sounds like she is scared of you. Leave the poor girl alone.

FrozenPonds · 15/10/2015 19:33

Are you a human bollard or something!?

Why are you standing around watching her all the time?

ShamefulUsername · 15/10/2015 19:35

Are you 12?

loveyoutothemoon · 15/10/2015 19:37

I had a wierdo hanging around the other day, was it you?

pinkyredrose · 15/10/2015 19:45

Is it half term?

Arfarfanarf · 15/10/2015 19:49

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SoleBizzzz · 15/10/2015 19:50

????????

Apprac · 15/10/2015 19:57

I work with her. I feel really bad, I only look at her when she's walking towards me or im walking past her, isn't that the curious thing to do? But she looks as if I'm maybe judging her or soemthing even Abit embarrased. The last thing I want is to make her uncomfortable. I have seen her looking or glancing at me from a far previously, if I'm in a different room or soemthing but when up close she's like this. She aberts her eyes very often. For example myself and another guy will walk into the room, she seems to look at him no problem, when I look at her she looks away. It doesn't make myself feel great tbh because I'm left thinking what I have done. Maybe the best thing to do is not look at her at all?

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Inexperiencedchick · 15/10/2015 20:05

maybe she likes you back, and feels embarrassed and uncomfortable when you look at her...

I don't think she has intention of being rude towards you...

she just doesn't feel the same way as with the other guy.
because the other guy is probably not looking at her as a man to a woman but just as a co-worker.

reni2 · 15/10/2015 20:45

I'm creeped out just reading this.

Arfarfanarf · 15/10/2015 20:48

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Apprac · 15/10/2015 21:01

No Iam not hinting at all. How could she even like me when acting like this. I'm genuinely concerned that I make her uncomfortable. I thought it might be just in my head and that is why I asked. It does bother me because I like her but I'm concerned my persona is creeping her out. I'm shy myself so it doesn't help.

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CactusAnnie · 15/10/2015 21:05

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ShatnersBassoon · 15/10/2015 21:09

I started fiddling with my zip reading the op. You just have that effect on women.

reni2 · 15/10/2015 21:12

I think it possibly is just in your head, but you are probably showing it. I find it creepy just reading it as I said.

spidergurl · 15/10/2015 21:14

Tbh it's just me maybe but I would be more likely to act like this if I like a guy and am shy.

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Scarletforya · 15/10/2015 21:55

You sound overly fixated on her. She's probably noticed.

Best thing to do is try to stop focusing on her so much.

And you don't know she's walking the long way to 'avoid you'. It's probably nothing to do with you. You need to stop obsessing and watching her.

Atenco · 15/10/2015 22:04

I don't think it's very helpful to encourage the Op by suggesting that she might be attracted to him.

Based on what he's posted, I'd say that's highly unlikely

Sorry OP, but why do you stare at her? that is the most creepy thing you do.

Apprac · 15/10/2015 22:29

Only when I'm walking past her or she's walking towards me, to see if she actually gives me eye contact. It makes me feel more comfortbale to initiate talking to her, but the thing is she won't look me in the eyes in these situations.

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PushingThru · 15/10/2015 22:36

She doesn't want to talk to you & doesn't want you looking at her. The way you are describing her as 'rude' & making you feel bad about yourself is just weird & creepy. She doesn't owe you anything.