Hi,
I found out at the weekend that my ex dh has a girlfriend .
No big deal in some senses, good luck to her an all that jazz, but I'm just so bloody angry that he's happier than me after all he's put me through.
Brief background - we split because he stole a large amount of money from his work, he was over invested in his job- he liked to look inportant(hence the money stolen to fund lifestyle which btw I was never part of because it was all business trips etc
He'd created a secret dating profile many years ago-
We had to start paying the money back to his work even though we had just spent ten years clearing his old marriages debts an csa arrears.
In all I spent ten years an had a 8 yr old child with a con artist.... So.....,
You would think I would be glad to see back of him!
I am but I'm so angry that he's allowed to swan off and start a nice shiny new life whilst I'm left to bring up our son(not that I begrudge that bit) but I f/t and look after him - ex dh swans in 2 nights a week to play Disney dad- an now he's hooked up with a woman that has 2 children where he ll be investing more time and care on than the 3 children he's got by us two ex wives (other 2 kids he doesn't see)
I stalk him on fb an whatsapp an just am so mad at him... How can I stop this an move on.... How did you get over that anger? Pls help someone ? X
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Gohackyourself · 12/10/2015 13:50
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