We broke up a year ago. We were together for 3 years. Lived together for 1. No dcs.
We hadn't had sex for 7 months. He just didn't find me attractive. I'd like to say at the end we were just friends but he used to get so angry with me. Grabbed me a few times but never hit me.
I ended it. He accused me of cheating. He stayed for a month then moved out. I still live here.
After Christmas we became good friends. Would have movie nights and go for meals. He made it clear that he wanted to make a go of things. I didn't think it would work at the time but in the future as I thought we needed time apart.
He started seeing a girl in my friendship group. I've known her for years. He always complained about her lifestyle and how he disagreed with it.
Then he cut me off. Was very cruel when we bumped into each other.
I've had two short term relationships. Both horrible. One raped me.
I'm now dating a guy I've known for 10+ years. He makes me feel so safe and everyone's always said we'd be good together. I can see it turning into a long term thing.
Now I can't stop thinking about my exDP. I miss him and I feel so lonely and angry that he's loved up even though I'm dating someone.
Why can't I stop thinking about him?! He's been in my dreams and I can't stop thinking about them.
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ClassicMonkey · 09/10/2015 03:30
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