So, currently going through a messy divorce. Exh was abusive and had child with ow while still married. Then a whole court case to force my v young kids to meet the woman.
Anyway he is always unpleasant when making contact arrangements and i usually ignore his insults and stick to the facts of times to pick up kids etc.
However yesterday he was being awful mainly as i had asked for money towards kids uniform and shoes. I got you are lazy i can't stand you ur useless cant wait to be rid of you at least I have a caring family etc etc. Then 2 hours later oh i am seeing kids later right. I said yes but for their benefit not yours and if you speak to me like that again you won't be
Then i got you ignorant woman you are selfish irresponsible not putting kids first emotionally abusing them causing neglect look at state of house i am going to phone social services and cafcass immediately and tell them about you kids are suffering blah blah
It really upset me which i guess was the point but i don't know if he is just ranting or will do it. I forwarded to solicitor but I don't think he is going to do anything at this stage
I think ex is trying to unsettle me so he doesn't have to pay the full settlement
I feel so distraught but it makes no sense for him to phone ss as he has previous dv incidents with them and they know thats why marriage ended along with the adultery
Please what can i do if anything and can he successfully take kids off me?
He mentioned the messy house but to me its just normal kids mess and toys crumbs etc not dirty. He always had issues with housework as i was more relaxed and if he saw crumb would push my face into them and hit me. So obv since he left i make sure there are many crumbs around
Ok will stop rambling now hope for some advice
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yummytummy · 27/08/2015 16:04
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