Looking for some advice please!
I have always been told that I'm intimidating, cold and scary . A very good friend of mine told me yesterday that I have bitchy resting face and I still intimidate her sometimes! This is at complete odds with how I feel, and I really don't mean to come across this way to people! I actually lack confidence and feel quite awkward with people - especially new people. I get very shy and I just feel like I don't know how to make my facial expressions warm and friendly without looking creepy! I think this all stems from an abusive childhood.
I am currently training to be a psychotherapist as I'm a natural listener (much prefer listening to talking) and I want to help people. But I'm seriously worried that my clients will think the same as the vast majority of people, and not warm to me. Is there anything I can do? I've had lots of counselling in the past and it hasn't ever changed the way I come across to people. Am I stuck like this forever?!
Thanks!
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HairyAndScary · 01/08/2015 17:47
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