Dh and I argue. Not always but sonetimes.
When we do he always accuses me of ruining the evening. " one night off and yet again you've ruined it! You always want to fight. You've thrown the one night a week we have down the pan again!"
The problem is this makes me feel awful. His attitude is that I am spoiling for a fight to spoil the day. Mine is today we've argued- it takes two.. As far as I am concerned he is trying to emotionally blackmail me into not "arguing" with him. Today's example of my arguing with him is me challenging him yet again on how disrespectful arriving almost an hour later than promised to an event is. He argued that my friends were there so he didn't think I'd watch the clock and wouldn't notice his lateness. My argument was that he said he'd be there at 12 and I bought him a drink at 12, told everyone he was arriving at 12 ( as he said he would) and had to be
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pregnantpause · 12/07/2015 19:06
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