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20yr wedding anniversary tomorrow

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yougotafriend · 06/07/2015 17:18

Or is it??
Seperated end of last year but (legally) still married and not yet started divorce.

What's the protocol? Obviously I'm not going to contact stbxh, the chances are he won't even remember anyway, but I do feel a bit weird about it

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wonderingsoul · 06/07/2015 18:30

Get some friends round.
Wine
take out

first is the hardest one, but be kind to yourself x

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FrancesNiadova · 06/07/2015 22:13

Can you choose yourself a really nice present that represents you turning a corner and looks towards a bright future?
Best wishes -x-

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yougotafriend · 07/07/2015 06:43

Thanks ladies, I do feel quite sad today which is a little unexpected as it was my decision to separate. I will make sure I do something nice for myself

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Hadron21 · 07/07/2015 06:59

20 years is a long time and something to be celebrated. Remember the good times. And buy yourself that longed for anniversary gift you never got!

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