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I have just turned 43 with an 8 and 3 year old. I haven't had an intimate relationship for pretty much 8 years (or more). My husband does not seem sexual and has not been aroused by me for a number of years now. He got Viagra from the doctor but it just sat in a cupboard. I was his first girlfriend, then wife. The year before last, I found he had been on chat-sites. Last year, I discovered he had been reading transsexual stories (that was an eye opener!) I have threatened to leave him for the latter problems and just lack of sex. I do not look particularly different from when we got married at 32, just over 10 years ago, but I cannot trust him now. He got very secretive about his phone, but has now allowed me to have access to it. I just think he's taken it elsewhere now or is covering his tracks better. I don't know what to do, but I don't particularly want to be intimate with HIM anymore, but I do want sex. Oh yes, and he keeps putting off Relate until we move areas (we are in the process of moving at the moment).
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doolittle26 · 23/06/2015 13:50
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