Just now I feel teary and exhausted by life especially my mother's demands and hostility. I just need some space from her but not sure whether to just put distance with her or explain how I feel?
My Dad passed away (her ex husband) four months ago. I am grieving deeply but have a small child as a single mum, own business and have just moved house so plenty of responsibilities. My mother has been unsympathetic throughout. She even told me to 'stop whining on about your Dad' a few weeks ago. It was the first time I'd mentioned my grief to her.
Last night she had me in tears on the phone and the tears haven't stopped this morning. I got another long email from her telling me how disappointed she is with me and it's just too much. I feel that if we had distance, I would feel heal better. I know tears are part of the grief so I'm okay with feeling it but I think I need to cut out her horrible influence for a bit until I'm in a better place to deal with her.
So do I write back and tell her we need distance?
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queenofthepirates · 18/06/2015 09:59
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