ExH picks ds1 and ds2 up on a Sunday, and drops them back - well his girlfriend drives them all as ExH doesn't drive.
My issue is at the moment it's like a pigging family outing - instead of just ExH getting out and picking up/dropping off they have to park up, all get out, bring their daughter in and all come in my house.
Hints of me standing out front haven't worked, or have the hints I've dropped.
So how can I stop it? I'm getting cheesed off with the family parade, and tbh I don't want their dads girlfriends feedback or jokes and would rather just do hand overs with him.
It's six years btw, I'm happily with someone else - but if dp and his son are here too I have a bloody circus in my tiny house for no reason!!
How can I text/put a barrier up?
It's a recent thing btw, as before they moved they had overnights and I'd drop boys off. I would go in, but usually as they weren't ready and DP/Dss would always stay in the car and wait.
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VelmaD · 14/06/2015 18:51
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