Respond to others here but first post and have namechanged. My dh has bipolar. After years of ups and downs it is fairly manageable. We have an understanding brokered by his consultant that if l detect an inkling of any high behaviour he will take extra medication. His biggest mania thing is sending emails speaking his mind in a very forceful and direct way. Usually the truth but imagine telling everyone around you how you really feel! The fallout is usually very stressful and even though l am not even aware he is sending one it affects my relationship with people. Last night l had doubts about him but let it go. Today he sent a fucking email. I am lying awake feeling wiped out facing this again.l don't puck up the pieces or get involved. I stopped doing that a long time ago and generally l have a very fulfilling life which l have worked hard to build up. But l am fed up of this. Just wanted to let that out. I don't discuss it much with people as want to have a normal life but l am very tired of it all.
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