For those who really, really don't like their inlaws but have decided to give 'low key' a go instead of NC - how do you cope with seeing them and ignoring the toxic behaviour? My inlaws have become a nightmare since we had children but after much thought I am trying to give 'low key' a go as they are bonkers rather than bad. I think my MIL just can't cope with the fact that someone she doesn't really like is bringing up her grandchildren and as she is very competitive (and I am quite easy going and probably not assertive enough), she feels like she has to try and take over the 'mummy' role. They have done some awful things and I have had enough. I would love to tell them to f*k off to the far side of f*k off but at the end of the day they are my husbands parent's and I know he would be upset if we fell out. He is in agreement with me regarding the low key option, as they have tried some of the toxic behaviour with him.
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For those who have gone low key instead of NC with parents/inlaws how do you cope?
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atotalshambles · 10/06/2015 11:43
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