Long back story but in short dh and I together for 14 years, married for 9 and have two dc's age 6 and 3. Dh and I split last year after I could take his chronic cannabis use and emotional abuse no more. He moved out for 6 months and life felt easier. However he got me to agree to try again after he gave up the cannabis and I foolishly agreed to give things another go. He has been back 8 months and whilst he is not back smoking cannabis he is drinking too much and spending a lot of time in the pub, I feel generally neglected, he is mood and finds it impossible to communicate on any emotional level. I have to control the money and give him access to limited amounts only but he is still spending over £100 a week in the pub. I have hit breaking point and tonight have told him I don't think I love him any more and that I think we should separate. He said he won't move out again and that this is all my fault for not paying HIM enough attention. He's stormed off upstairs now saying this is all me and that he is willing to try and reduce his alcohol ( heard it all before) but that I have given up on the family. I just don't think I love this man anymore yet I don't hate him either. He thinks we just need to try harder?
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