This is the first time I have ever posted anything on a forum, so please bare with me if I sound a little confused and don't use the correct abbreviation.
Separated with husband 7mths ago after 24years of marriage. Things have always been up and down but seemed to get worse in the last 2yrs.
He has admitted that he distanced himself a couple of years ago as he couldn't cope with my depression and has told me to sort out my shit.
I have been depressed for along time and am medicated, tried CBT (which helped) and have been seeing psychologist on and off for years. I have recently be referred back to my psychiatrist and am in the process of changing medication. (so don't think I can do anymore).
The problem is I don't want the marriage to be over but he wont talk to me about anything emotional and wont go to any counselling . So I feel I'm stuck hanging around waiting for him to decide what he wants.
A little more information we have 3children 20,17 and 13 all living at home and I am living in the family home with them. I've now been working full time for 6mths. He is paying all the bills, including our food and doesn't want to change any of the bank accounts.
I just don't know what to do and I know he wont make any decisions as one of his faults is that he doesn't do anything.
What to do.
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Kareninprogress · 04/05/2015 05:14
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