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Relationships

Where do single men hang out?

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SnortbertHumplesplink · 27/04/2015 20:00

I am too scared to do online dating but I need to meet some nice single men, in their 30s or 40s. Where do they hang out? I'm not keen to go pubbing and clubbing, I'd rather join a club, start a hobby or go to some events. The problem is that everything I've joined has been full of women and OAPs. Where do all the younger single men hang out??

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Taghain · 27/04/2015 20:19

Take up mountain biking. Seriously.
It's 90% men, mostly fit and comfortably off. Where do you live? Most areas will have a club or group of riders who go off for an hour or two at weekends, often with a pub break or cake stop.

avoiretre · 27/04/2015 20:21

Try the gym, especially the sauna afterwards, plenty of 30s and 40s men to check out!

AnyFucker · 27/04/2015 20:21

fell running

ThatBloodyWoman · 27/04/2015 20:22

YY take up some form of outdoor sport.
You'll get the rugged fit type.

SnortbertHumplesplink · 27/04/2015 20:24

Rugged fit type sounds good! I'm in central London though so a bit hard to find outdoorsy types and opportunities for fell running.

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Greysanderson · 27/04/2015 20:25

Rock climbing

Greysanderson · 27/04/2015 20:26

There are many rock climbing centres in London full of men and women of all ages.

Taghain · 27/04/2015 20:27

or indoor climbing centres, unless you prefer chunky men.
Climbers tend to be be light & flexible but very strong

ThatBloodyWoman · 27/04/2015 20:30

You need some urban explorers perhaps.
YY to hanging out at climbing walls.

SnortbertHumplesplink · 27/04/2015 20:31

OK, this is good. What about anything less sporty? Or do I just have to grin and bear how useless I will be at rick climbing and mountain biking?

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mrscynical · 27/04/2015 20:32

Google 'parkrun.org.uk' for starters maybe?

AnyFucker · 27/04/2015 20:32

Central London, you say ?

take up parkour

ThatBloodyWoman · 27/04/2015 20:40

How about joining a community action group or something?
Its your chance to fine tune the type of suitor you want.

ImperialBlether · 27/04/2015 20:43

Running - join a running club.

Swimming very early in the morning.

DianeLockhart · 27/04/2015 20:46

For non sporty, Photography clubs also seem quite gender mixed with decenf amount of men

BackforGood · 27/04/2015 20:51

Volunteer with the Scouts - not only is it where I met my dh, but it's full of great blokes, and the proportion of men:women is good, and although some are married, or in relationships, other aren't.
From that, you can do all sorts of walking , cycling, climbing, outdoor persuits type activities.

albal14 · 27/04/2015 21:03

If your struggling in the centre of our capital, god help us single folk in the rest of the country!

Seriously, how would you know if the fit biker/mountain climber/ you have your eye on is available?

Wish you all the best OP

Charley50 · 27/04/2015 21:04

Microbrewery or local independent gin distillery if you like some facial hair?

Charley50 · 27/04/2015 21:05

Tastebuds music website to meet people to go to guys with...not strictly OD.

antimatter · 27/04/2015 21:05

Join meetup and try those which appeal to you.

5secondstilltakeoff · 27/04/2015 21:07

ThatBloodyWoman · 27/04/2015 21:08

Volunteer.

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LL0015 · 27/04/2015 21:10

Download Happn app. Just to see what's is about in your local area.
Some seriously sexy men near my office. Except they are all 40's and don't have children so I know they are not the men for me.

But if I was so inclined, there are lots of men in London nearby. Did I say lots. Amend that - Gazillions

something2say · 27/04/2015 21:13

Instrument playing, open mics and gigs is where I meet men. When I am of a mind to do so.

Have fun!!

HellonHeels · 28/04/2015 00:07

Serpentine running club in London.

Or cycling clubs in general (Almost always far more men than women)

Go on an active holiday eg with Exodus. Biking, trekking, winter survival etc. They have single traveller departures too.

My book group in London has lots of men (tends to have the quirkier end of the man-spectrum)

German language classes had loads of men when I learned. (Italian classes full of women). Anecdata!

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