I'm not sure where to start. I'll keep it super brief.
So, let's rewind, about 5 years ago me and this girl had a thing, we were crazy about each other. Admittedly we were quite young then but it was mine and hers first serious relationship and it lasted about a year or so.
After that we finished on good terms and then we didn't speak for a good year.
When the time came we started to speak as friends, she had a new guy in her life and I've had several women (bare in mind I'm 18). But this guy is quite obviously the love of her life. She's been with him since we split up to this day. They're very sexually active. But recently we've started speaking again and we've become a lot closer. I see her every single day for 3-6 hours, normally just driving and talking. I've actually taken her up north about 2-3 hours away to meet my mum and her side of the family (first time I've ever done it) and she stays round mine, in the same bed. We cuddle, talk, watch movies. Nothing sexual. Now, her current guy treats her like s**t and she loves him so much.
I think I might be in love with her again but I don't want to lose what we have. I'm
Not sure what to make of all of this but she's staying round tomorrow. Her boyfriend knows nothing about me and her or whenever she stays at mine etc.
What do you think of this? What should I do?
Thanks.
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mrcurioisandbroken21 · 28/02/2015 23:55
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