My ex cheated on me and left me for another woman. I was devastated and whilst I am fine now I am no way over it.
I think about him every day. I have followed NC as much as possible (I know NC is shit or bust but we have a joint business so I have had to have limited contact)
During our limited contact he has asked if we can be friends. I have said absolutely not. As soon as we divide interests he can go for good.
I received a text last night saying the OW is long gone and he 'really misses our friendship' and that we were friends before partners so could we go back to that?
Why? Surely this is code for oh it didn't work out with X so I am seeing if the door is open?
I don't know why I am asking really. I know the answers.
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why does my ex 'want to be friends' after his affair?
Ouchbloodyouch · 26/02/2015 20:11
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