I know DH is suffering, I really do but I'm struggling to cope with 2 kids and him moping around, not speaking for days, not doing anything around the house and pussy footing around his moods.
We've been together 14 years and married for 4 months, that's when it all fell apart. I resent him for talking me into marriage when I always thought we were happy, committed and settled before, that a piece of paper wouldn't change that but in actual fact its turned him into someone I don't know anymore and someone who I don't want around because its so bloody mentally and emotionally draining.
Part of me wants him to go because its getting hard for everyone to be around him, no one visits anymore because they feel so uncomfortable and they don't phone because he won't speak about anything other than his depression. But the other part says that maybe one day he'll be back, back to the man I have loved for half of my life. Its just so fucking hard, hard to try and help him, hard to keep up the charade that I'm fine and most of all its hard to watch and listen to the kids ask their Dad to play only to be told he's too exhausted and they walk away with that look of disappointment on their faces :(
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Struggling to live with a depression sufferer
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LojizticallySpeaking · 26/01/2015 13:25
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