I?ve posted about my mother before. Basically she?s very controlling, resents my independence and imo has never come to terms with the fact that I can?t see. My sister is a younger version of her, although my sister is much more diplomatic.
Since I had ds she has said various things to me .. that I couldn?t possibly have two close together a I wouldn?t be able to cope, despite the fact I coped very well with one, that I shouldn?t let ds ride his bike because I can?t see him, I took no notice, and worst of all was the fact she always said I couldn?t expect others to ever let me look after their children because people wouldn?t feel comfortable letting someone like me look after their children. Now on that point I absolutely appreciate why someone who doesn?t know me would feel perhaps a bit uncomfortable letting someone with no sight look after their children, but although I do understand that it still always hurt to be told it by my own mother. However, today I was taking ds to preschool and on the way we met one of his little friends and her mum. As we reached the shops, the little girl?s mum suddenly said that she had to go into the shop. My ds and little girl were chatting so I asked the little girl if she?d like to walk with me to preschool, and her mum let her come with me without any hesitation what so ever. That has done wonders for me, but has also proved to me what I?ve suspected for a long time, that my own mother is prejudiced.
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My own mother is prejudiced
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wannaBe1974 · 11/10/2006 21:52
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