So last week I caught my DH online sexting with other women. The stuff I found out about went back about 2 months (of course he says that's all there is), but who knows how long he's really been doing it for. At least it was clear from what I read that he never met up with anyone and it all stayed online.
Well I've decided that I want to forgive him and move on from this. Obviously he says he is so sorry, so regretful, he loves me so much and he's going to stop and never do it again.
The thing is, I believe that right now he is going to stop and that he means it when he says he doesn't want to do it again. BUT ... what he will feel like in the months and years to come after his guilt has worn off? I mean, it must have been so exciting for him. Hard to believe that he'll never give in to temptation again now that he's crossed that line once.
What do you think? Can someone who does this kind of thing really change (do you know anyone who definitely has)? Is it possible he will really not do it again? Or is a liar and a cheat always a liar and cheat?
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Can he really stop and not do it again?
kampa · 22/11/2014 21:39
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