I have a freind who basically waits for me to call her or go over to her, she finds excuses as to why she can't come to see me. She hasn't a car, the bus fair is too expensive, she was up late up,she isn't organised. Blah blah blah.
Yet she has other friends she meets up with regular and can make an effort for them. She claims she hasn't got money for the bus fare but can spend money on crap and stuff for herself.
I have excused this for a while as she has other things going on in her life.
But she is always saying we don't get together enough!!
Yesterday I got in touch with her and I suggested I pick her up.
Her answer was ummmm you could but I am going out in the evening to a group and I like to spend the day preparing for that and doing my hair and straightening it and covering my spots up. I like to spend the day to chill.
Now I am miffed a this, I mean she is making damn obvious that she would rather spend the day in doors doing her hair then her and her little one come out with me and my lttle one. They play well together BTW.
Evertime I have been over there too she is never ready and she is glued to the PC.
It's peeing me off and I feel used.
We have known each other for three years and we live 20 mins apart. We have quite a bit in common and we both use a forum, not this one.
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Feeling very down and upset
Dominodancer · 28/09/2006 10:07
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