dreaming of exs last 2 nights ... what does this mean?

[crazylady321]

Before I start im very happy in a relationship we are engaged but no date set yet as waiting until had our baby.

Very randomly Weds night I woke up freaked out as it was my wedding day and was marrying my childrens father (not been with him for nearly 5 years), laughed it off to myself. Then last night I woke up had been dreaming of him again this time it was him in my garden building something I dont know what!!! Went back to sleep and found myself dreaming of another ex we were on a night out and my OH was there aswell this time.

This is very unusual for me tbh never really remember my dreams so why suddenly am I dreaming of exs .

[BrianButterfield]

Well, if you don't remember dreams you may well be dreaming of them every night! I think it's just random - maybe you saw someone in the street who subconsciously reminded you of them, etc.

[CarryOn90]

Dreams are random. They're weird. They don't mean anything.

[BoldFossil]

it's to do with how you felt at the tiem.
i've an x who dumped me with a character assassination and i was devastated, but after a while when my anger kicked in i felt he was an asshole to me, so i sometimes dream i'm getting back iwth him but i figured out it was a dream to do with compromising my integrity somehow.

i've another x, and i dreamt i was in a jail cell in a wedding dress! don't have to be freud to figure out that one.

[crazylady321]

very true could be dreaming every night haha. Just freaked me out a little

[Fairylea]

Dreams are just brain junk.

Last week I dreamt that my dh went on a date with Ian somehalder or whatever he's called from vampire diaries. Dh isn't gay and I don't have any interest whatsoever in Ian whatshisname. I told dh when I woke up and he laughed his head off. Weirdest thing is I wasn't even remotely bothered in the dream - just waved him off!!

[SweetErmengarde]

I also have an ex who crops up in my dreams with worrying frequency.

Last night, he was swimming in the duck pond in our local park - which I saw yesterday IRL had warning signs around it due to poisonous algae!

I maintain I have no vengeful feelings towards him whatsoever; my subconscious appears to have other ideas....

[noitsachicken]

Pregnancy can give you very vidid dreams!

[TakeMeUpTheNorthMountain]

I'm pregnant and had a FILTHY dream about the boy I had my first kiss with. He was fully when I was 12 and I have never seen him since but jesus I was dry humping the mattress when I woke up.

Don't worry bout the dreams, they are totally random.

[SpaceStation]

God yes I dream about exes and it especially happened when pregnant. Sometimes I'm back with them and in the dream I'm vaguely thinking "but what about DP, where is he...? Am I cheating on him? Well, I suppose it's done now." I've woken up feeling very guilty and taken a few minutes to convince myself it didn't happen!