What happens in your house when your DH(DP, partner, OH ...) does something dickish? Do you stop talking, shout, cry, have a reasonable discussion like two grown ups?
My DH knows he's been a dick at the weekend and is avoiding me, hardly speaking and when I shouted on Sunday ( because I needed to get my anger out at him) giving me tales of 'you don't know how low I am' excuses for his dickishness.
I know I sound unsympathetic but when someone tells you the same thing for twenty years and does fuck all about it then it's extremely frustrating. The 'lows' only really appear when he's been an arse and are used as an excuse. Drink related.
So what happens in your house? I'm a 'need to shout get it out there and then move on' person. What happens in your house?
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Culloden · 16/09/2014 05:09
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