...got a bit of a dilemma because MIL has arranged a surprise dinner for FIL & BIL as it's 60th & 30th b'days.
They live about 75 -100 miles away. We have DD1 who is 3 & DD2 who is 9 weeks. Whilst Dh could go, (with difficulty as it's a Friday night). I can't because there is no-one to babysit ( everyone is going to the dinner)
I'm feeling a bit left out because I can't come. DH says he will go as it's his Dad & I am hurt/annoyed (not quite sure of the exact emotion) because I think MIL has been thoughtless - ie could have planned something where her son's wife could come to. They are now going to arrange a lunch for us ( & DD's) but this isn't the same.
DH is now saying he won't go, but I don't want him to miss out.
I guess I'm just feeling a bit second rate
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MIL has planned a 60th Birthday surprise for the family
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Mojomummy · 22/09/2006 09:59
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