Ok help me out, I feel really mean!
I joined Tinder about three weeks ago just because it was a Friday night, I was bored and wanted something to do.
I've spoken to a few guys some were nice and there's one I think I could be good friends with, most were after just one thing so I swiftly 'unmatched' as that's not really what I'm looking for.
Anyways, here's where I'm feeling mean.. I matched with someone yesterday and he started up a conversation mainly where are you from, what do you do, do you drive etc.. Then he said about maybe going for a drink one day which I in haste agreed to then shortly after he asked what day I was free..I said could he do the week after instead but then I wimped out! I've never done internet dating or anything so started to panic a bit thinking what do we talk about (he literally knows nothing about me and vice versa) what if he's a psycho etc.. Anyways crux of the matter is before he had a chance to respond I've unmatched him so we can no longer talk to each other. I felt really bad doing it but other than saying 'actually I've changed my mind I don't want to meet you' I didn't know what else to do. I feel really harsh about doing it but I am a massively overly sensitive person.
He probably has loads of 'matches' he's arranging the same thing with so he's not really going to care is he? And literally we sent like 8 messages each so it's not really like I've wasted his time? Still, I did feel really nasty doing it.
If you were him would you feel upset/annoyed? Don't want to have hurt his feelings. Convince me he's really not going to care please
Tinder or any sort of internet dating is obviously not for me!
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Was this nasty, or will he not even notice?
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WendyBloomers · 23/08/2014 12:47
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