NC for this, I think.
DH and I are separating. I've got some great advice on here about it under another name. Things are irretrievably broken down. I've had the police round for his terrifyingly intimidating actions; in respect of a deeply painful family bereavement he called me a 'grief whore'; everything he does is almost without exception my fault etc etc. He's been horrible, and there's no way back.
My immediate family have been amazing. In respect of the wider family, I've tried to be brief in terms of what I've communicated, emphasising the efforts we've made to put things right, and our commitment to the DCs. My assumption is that they may see him in the future, and I don't want massive awkwardness about that. But now some family members are having a massive go at me - hugely intrusive questioning, nasty statements about how I'm not prioritising my DCs' needs, etc etc etc. I really don't want to deal with these unhelpful messages on top of general fuckwittery from STBXH (this week's tactic was trying to ban me from using the car, something else will no doubt follow next week).
Anyone else experienced this? Any pithy responses (other than fuck the fuck off to the far side.....).
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stopbotheringme · 06/06/2014 17:41
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