One of the things I fell in love with him for was that I felt I could talk to him about anything but things seem to have changed.
I think that he is depressed - he hates his job, we have had to tighten our purse strings and he is in pain and waiting for an operation. He also wants more sex but manages to turn me off with his bad temper most of the time
When I try to talk to him he is often sarcastic and normally negative, its very hard to continue the conversation after this - This is just one of his barriers to conversation. He is also quite likely to just turn on the news in the middle of a conversation or pick up his sudoku. Another tactic is to talk over the top of me or be unnecessarily unpleasant. It seems to me that the only safe topic is our DS who DH adores.
I guess that he may be looking for me to come up with a solution to his problems, he always fires solutions at me when I mention problems to him, but I hate his solutions and rarely implement them and I don't have any solutions to his unhappiness. I suppose that I could suggest to him that he may be depressed, I don't know how he would take it.
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I can't talk to DH
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Karou · 12/05/2014 17:19
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