Does anyone have any thoughts on this? DS3 had his first GF when he was 21 (all of mine have been quite late starters). Nice girl, but got herself into quite a few scrapes caused by drink/weed consumption during the months they were together. She was a bit unreliable, wouldn't call or turn up when expected, and he got REALLY stressed out by it all, obsessing about something happening to her. In the end, it got a bit stalker-ish TBH, he realised it was seriously unhealthy, and ended the relationship, although I think he really loved her.
That was four years ago. He got his life back on track - job, flat, doing well. BUT, he's absolutely terrified of relationships. He was here last night, panic stricken, almost to the point of panic attack, because he's had a second date with a girl. This has happened three or four times in the last few years - he asks someone out, they have a few dates, he starts to worry about the relationship and get stressed that history will repeat, so he finishes it. By his own admission, he's ended things with some lovely girls he was very lucky to go out with! He doesn't seem to be holding a candle for his first GF, they've had no contact since they parted.
I'd bet my bottom dollar that he'll have finished with this latest girl by the middle of the week. He's 25, and a really nice bloke. I just worry that he's not going to get over this .
Does anyone have any experience of anything like this?
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moggiek · 09/05/2014 21:53
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