Im taking a leap of faith? Or am I? Do i need someone to just tell me im too crazy?
I have an 11mo. His dad was very violent and left us when he was 7 weeks old. It had been coming a long time.
I have been in a relationship for the last 6 months. Its moved really really quickly & hes incredibly keen.
As in he has been pretty much living with us for the last 5 months, Hes amazing with my lo and treats him as if hes his own. All of our families get on brilliantly. We have been talking about moving for a while and I have been desperate (especially to get away from ex and family).
We saw a house near new boyfriends house thats lovely and would save us a fortune but cant view it til wednesday. I could either hand in my months notice for here tomorrow and take the gamble that this is the house for us, and if its not move in with boyfriend and his brother temporarily or wait and spend another months rent for the security.
Boyfriend is adamant that there is always a home for us there if this house doesnt work out and that id be stupid to waste another months rent when we can live with them if needs be if this place doesnt work out until we find something better. But i would essentially be handing my notice in for this house without a set place or date to move into. I keep telling him what if things go wrong with us me and lo will be left without a house but he is adamant that he will take care of us and we have a home there. Its just a big leap for me.
Am I crazy to be considering doing it? It feels it! Somebody be the voice of logic in my head?
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militantmango · 30/04/2014 23:03
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