Dp & I are going through a bad patch. 4 dc baby 3 months old. I'm really disappointed in him. I feel he's not supportive of me. I'm bf so up at night. Do all stuff with dc & housework. He works odd hours. Worked all bank holiday. Dc been on hols for 2 weeks they don't go back for another week. I'm mentally & physically exhausted.
After all the dc I ended up exhausted but ff others & would end up giving him baby & i would look after older dc.
I just feel hurt that he can't step up for a few weeks so I can step back abit.
It's the day to day stuff but also big issues. He let me down terribly last year when I really, really needed him.
Since the baby was born I've been really anxious & stressed he knows this but he struggles with dc routines or housework so i end up doing everything. I'm now increasingly angry even towards the dc.
I've tried talking to him yet again tonight. He's got cross & said he'll sort somewhere to go. I had said about splitting up as i can't go on like this. We have no help, we don't go out together. He gets one weekend off a month & always goes out. It his lack of consideration that hurts. He's either totally selfish or really useless & I'm not sure what's worse!
I don't even know why I'm posting - probley cos I've no one to talk to & my head hurts from thinking! I can't even think straight anymore...
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Pigginnora · 22/04/2014 01:00
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