My friends are all sleeping...and I just want some perspective here.
Have been dating fantastic man for the last 18 months. He makes me laugh, he tells me all the time how much he loves me and we always have a good time together.
But I've never felt I can trust him 100%. I know it's not my insecurities...it's that 6th sense. Anyway...got hold of his phone as you do and found him sexting a friend of mine. Honestly, I was not surprised..that 6th sense always works. I honestly think he really loves me a lot but he just can't help himself - it's a bloody shame. I am sad and disappointed...yet again by a man..and my fing "friend."
Thing is he has told me before during arguments that it would be the end of him if we split up. And I know he's tried to end it once before. I am scared that he might do this again. And I can't admit to reading his phone, so how do I present him with the facts?
I sound rational, but I am deeply hurt. I'm just trying not to fall apart. We have talked so much about the future, etc and I was so happy. Fing men...so crap...
What the hell should I do?
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help! advice needed - just don't know what to do...
fizzfiend · 01/12/2013 23:36
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