so we have finally decided to end it after a year of trying. we have 2 Dds aged 4 and 4 months.
He won't move out of the rented house until the day the rent is due so I cant apply for housing benefit until then (I am on mat leave and only worked part time so am on bare minimum money)
He is planning on moving back to his family home that I can only describe as a cess pit, dog poo on the floor mould in the fridge.(I do all the housework) so as you can imagine it is not suitable for children however my ex is saying he has got a solicitor he will be applying for joint custody which means we have to share the tax credits? (the is after bragging about how much money he will be saving by moving home)
he works shifts eg nights, early mornings, so if he wants joint custody will this go against him?
can someone please advise as he is getting nasty, would a social worker or health visitor go and inspect the house before?
he has banned any of my friends coming round to see me and slandering me all over facebook.
I am at a loss what to do.
any advice much appreciated
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advice needed separating ex getting nasty
AndThatsWhatIThinkOfYou · 18/11/2013 07:41
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