Hi, I'm just wondering how everyone feels about saying please and thankyou in their relationship. Personally, I feel it's respectful to the other person if you say thank you for cooking dinner or picking you up from work etc but my partner says it makes him feel like a servant if I say thankyou all the time. However, if I cook a nice dinner, for example, and he says nothing, I feel a bit rubbish and taken for granted.
I just wondered how everyone else works these things in their relationships...
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please and thankyou
barmygirl · 17/11/2013 23:30
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