As the title suggests, really.
My mother was pretty horrible to us growing up (EA, smacking/hitting, constant criticism plus wild mood swings) but she has had a major personality overhaul in the past 10 years and seems to be a very different person now.
I have 2 DC, aged 1 and 2 (both boys). She adores them and they seem to love her. The problem is, DS1 is at the naughty stage and she is struggling with his behaviour. We don't rely on her for childcare or anything, I am currently a SAHM. She wants to be here and help with them though, and would be very upset if I stopped that.
I have trouble staying calm when I see her dealing with DS1. I told her to be firm with him, so she used her old 'stern' voice and suddenly it was like I was a cowering 3 yr-old again. It just went straight through me. He didn't seem fazed but I found it hard to cope with. I've told her no hitting/smacking
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Feeling scared of leaving my kids with my mum - anyone else felt like this?
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HowlerMonkey · 18/06/2013 19:01
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