I am living with my mum, and have been since 7 months pregnant. I can't afford to move out so am trying to save rather than going into council housing. This means it could be another 5-6 month's realistically.
My mum is a very self centered person, and Nome stop criticises everything I do with DD. If she cries she will come into the room tutting and saying 'poor DD, my children never had to put up with crying, you were all happy" and similar, if I make noises when tickling her or playing etc she will say you should be talking to her you'll make her autistic, and again compare how much better she was,
if I take DD out she finds something to criticise, constant comments like "what sort of mother does that" or "stop being so selfish you should be at home while she's a baby, shell hate you when she's older" even about soft play and baby groups.
I have tried again and again to ask her to stop comparing me to her, and said that it's making me feel depressed and not want to do anything even with DD but she just says well its making ne depressed seeing what DD has to pit up with.
Does anyone have any coping strategies or ways to distance myself from her for the next few months? I have spent half if today crying
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FrogInABog · 13/05/2013 20:29
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