DH is basically an abusive wanker. Physically, emotionally, financially etc. He has this HUGE sense of entitlement to get whatever he wants, whenever he wants. If he wants to hit me, he'll hit me, no remorse because he's entitled to do whatever he feels like. If he wants to take my money that I'm saving for bills and spend it on booze, that's what he'll do, and god forbid me telling him that isn't another right of his.
I don't want to get into a LTB because I've already had separate threads on here discussing that (not that it warrants a discussion, it was simply me being too scared to leave).
I have just been learning more and more from MIL over the years and apparently DH was completely and utterly spoilt as a child, by everyone around him. In MIL's own words - he got whatever he wanted, whenever he wanted it. And I've started to wonder if he has been groomed for entitlement, so much so that he really feels like it is his right to treat another human being like a piece of turd, which is why he never feels bad about anything afterwards.
Do you think that extreme spoiling of children can turn them into abusers?
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Do you think there is any correlation between extremely spoilt children and them becoming abusive partners?
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namechange917381 · 07/04/2013 12:48
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