Sorry if i ramble its been a long long day!!
Ok so my oh parked our car on double yellow lines while at work which has resulted in it being impounded!! This is likely to cost upwards of £180 at a time when we should be careful we have a ds 4.5 years and a baby due in april! My wages will be going down and his new job is likely to end up costing us in travel expenses anyway i digress.
I had a small amount of bleeding and was seen at maternity tonight by the time i seen him i was still angry about it, his attitude was well its happened now!! He should have been more careful! Laughing about it really pissed me off! To get the car back i need to be there having never driven to the location it is at and being 30 weeks pregnant he expected me to drive his sisters car in to get it while he was at work!!! I am due in hospital again at 10.30 tommorow for a scan on top of this! I admit i lost it then cried as i went to my parents for ds ( had also been working all day) told him its his fault he had to sort a less stressful way for me to get there! He has but only because we argued and decided to stay with ds at my parents house! He didnt let me know the new arrangments himself ( his mobile is in the car!) but went to his mums and got her to call me while he was there!! Havent heard a word from him since! It took my dad blowing his cool( he doesnt normally) to make him see asking me to drive to an area i dont know while heavily pregnant alone so he could be at work (he was meant to be off originally) wasnt right!
Opnions?
Also when we do eventually speak im pretty sure he is going to try n turn this to my fault and he does/tries this every time i object to anything re sharing household duties(i do pretty much them all) or if i voice an opnion on working hours( never leaves on time does extra hours shifts change alot at short notice etc) i feel i am being left with everything ( i work part time so i can care for ds and this baby when arrives) is there any hope? How can i make him see how hard it is?!
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Hopingforno2 · 10/02/2013 23:53
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