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i need some advice please

(18 Posts)
oopsadaisymaisy Fri 08-Feb-13 20:07:47

Well, bloody typical. So he texts asking to see me again. I text him a hello a couple of days later and nothing. Honestly I know people are allowed to change their minds but I will never understand men. Anyway, moving on, I ve got another one who's really sweet. Not met him yet but having lots of fun chatting. Staying positive is what I'm doing. smile please god don't make me wait another 5 years!

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 19:02:06

I'm waiting to see if he responds to my text. Nothing lost but I am nervous. He might think sod you! I didn't respond straight away when he asked if he could see me again. It might be a blessing. I ll let you all know. smile

Locketjuice Wed 06-Feb-13 18:30:59

Do it wink what can another night of fun do then if you decided no at least it was good sex wink

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 18:21:52

Ooh... No turning back now. I ve text him a hello. I ll have to wait now to see if he's still keen. Ive got butterflies. smile

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 18:17:21

Cog, he might surprise me. I ll text him and take it from there. I think its worth one more encounter just to check smile

CogitoErgoSometimes Wed 06-Feb-13 17:30:18

So he's a good lay and <yay!> you broke your duck, but you'd have nothing to talk about afterwards.... <shrugs> Could he be a placeholder or would you feel a bit heartless doing that to someone?

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 17:26:42

Absolutely solid. He may have changed his mind by now. I might text him. I was very drunk so I might think differently when I ve spent a bit more time with him. He had the fabulous arms! smile

See how it goes. Just don't make any promises, and make sure you are using efficient contraception. There is nothing wrong with a bit of NSA sex. You doan't actually know that he really wants more than that; he might be thinking that you do and he has to at least pretend to in orderto get another shag.

OldLadyKnowsNothing Wed 06-Feb-13 17:08:04

A younger bit of rough, really? grin Yes, see him again, even if it's only to say farewell.

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 16:59:18

Cassa a mere typo. I'm on my phone! Try not to take it personally love. smile

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 16:58:12

A dry spell for 5 years!

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 16:57:46

Cogito but what about the sex!!!!!!!! It was

Cassarick Wed 06-Feb-13 16:55:30

You're a 'professional'?? Then you should know how to spell 'coarse' !!

Perhaps there's not such a great difference between you after all !

CogitoErgoSometimes Wed 06-Feb-13 16:53:34

If he was Ok for the night but not your normal type and you don't have anything in common then just say 'thanks but no thanks'. Love 'em and leave 'em smile

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 16:50:38

I did mention friend with benefits but I think he's looking for a relationship. I may see him again to see what I think when I'm sober smile. He was sweet but course at the same time if that makes sense?

OldLadyKnowsNothing Wed 06-Feb-13 16:44:02

Aargh, what happened to my ?s?

OldLadyKnowsNothing Wed 06-Feb-13 16:43:33

What dp you want to do, and what do you think he wants. Sounds like you're not interested in a relationship with him, would he go for Friends With Benefits status.

oopsadaisymaisy Wed 06-Feb-13 16:35:45

I think relationships is the best place for it! I met a guy at the weekend and we had a very passionate night. I'm sure you don't need any mire details. I'm on my phone or I would put a little blush icon. Anyway, he wants to see me again. He's very very fit but he's 11 years younger than me , he's not really my cup of tea. I'm a professional and he isn't. He lives quite far from me and he was quite course. I've been single for years, Saturday was the first for me in over 5 years and he is very very fit. What should I do?

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