Despite only been together for 7 months, the last time we had sex was 2 sundays ago. He used to always be up for it but now I ALWAYS have to instigate it. I try kissing him when we go to bed and he kisses me back and then moves his head away so I can't carry on kissing him!! or he hugs me in a way that says "night night then" - sometimes he simply says "good night" - in other words, don't even bother trying!
Last night we went to bed, we were hugging and I kissed him, he kissed me back and then moved his head away from me. I turned around so my back was facing him and for a brief moment he touched my boobs and moved closer, without going into too much detail I made it OBVIOUS he could go further but he stopped and went to sleep.
I really miss having someone wanting me, feeling someone kiss the back of my neck in bed etc. I get none of that. I mean, ok if we'd been married for 20 years maybe that stuff would have faded out but after 7 months???
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SelfishShellfishy · 06/02/2013 13:32
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