apologies in advance. I'm going to rant. my ex us a twat as anyone who has read my threads and comments will know. this week I sent him a suggested timetable for alternate weekends as we usually do. I offered him this weekend then we alternate but said I could do this weekend if he preferred. he got back to me agreeing the Rota but saying yes, he would be very grateful if I have the kids this weekend. no problem for me. tonight at after 11 he has emailed saying he wants the kids this weekend after all and sorry for messing us about. now put this in the context of me having received we several emails telling me what a bad mother I am and various threats and lessons in behaviour this week, including about sending messages date after 11pm to inquire after a missing violin which he brings over every week but this week chose not to...perhaps because I needed a lesson for not agreeing to doing exactly what he wanted when he wanted. I said ' I'm surprise you didn't bring the violin. DR practices every day and needs it fir orchestra'. that is patronising and insulting apparently whereas his various threats, personal remarks and insults are acceptable.
please tell me this is a dream and I never married that twat. it's a million times better since he left but I still find dealing with him exhausting.
any grammar fascists out there...Sorry about the lack of capitals. I just can't be arsed.
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ex is a twat
Lovingfreedom · 11/01/2013 23:30
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