Hi
I have been looking and reading on here for a while and just wanted some advice.
I am engaged and getting married this year. I don't know if I am just feeling fed up as I've been in an accident but I don't feel happy.
I have been in a really bad relationship was very violent and controlling so my fiancé now is lovely such a sweet guy but he just never wants to sleep with me. We are early thirties and to start with it was ok but now unless I make the first moves nothing happens. I have tried speaking to him but it ends in a row as he thinks once a week is fine.. Ok it is but when we do he makes no effort it's very much me on top get it over and done with. There is hardly any build up unless I do things for him...!!
I just want to feel wanted and fancied I always make an effort but even going to bed in the nicest underwear or naked does nothing! He has been in long term relationships before so I don't know what to think...
He tells me he loves me everyday and we do get on so well but sex is a big deal to me.
He is very protective of his phone and I have caught him a few times in the past texting other girls but deleting the messages. A few times I have seen them and they are harmless but he still deletes. We had a big argument a few months ago about this and he promised not to do it again but then I saw just the other day he had done it again.
I have no idea what to think or do!!x
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buzbee1234 · 09/01/2013 17:41
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