I posted on here a while back about my ex texting me and generally being a PITA. I changed my number, spoke to a police officer i had contact with previously (regarding him) and had no more contact with him. (we've been broken up for months and months with no hint of us getting back together, he's even had a serious relationship since). No problem, until...
A few weeks back i was nodding off to sleep in bed when i heard banging, it was really loud (im in the attic room, sounded like someone was coming through the wall) thought it was the nextdoor neighbours so went down to have a word before they woke my DS. Nope, it was exp. Pissed up on my front step asking for money, then to sleep on the sofa then to charge his phone. I was so fucking angry!!! still am he refused to leave, i told him twice then rang the police to remove him. Which they did, no problems off he goes. I hear nothing.
Then tonight i got a text from him wanting yo talk because he is "he is going through a shit time" i was furious! Ignored it (took real restraint!) he sent another saying "ok fine ignore me" then another "no its not ok i need you in my life, you are the only person i trust"
I haven't replied. I have no idea how he has got my number as we have NO ONE in common, not one person i can think of. As it is I'll be calling orange tomorrow for yet another change of number, but seriously how much does it take to understand "Leave Me Alone!"
There is not part of me that feels bad for him or wants to help me. I am stuck in the incredulous "How dare you?" stage.
Sorry for the long post i don't have in RL to talk to because itjust worries them (he has been violent in the past) my poor boy has no idea and frequently asks if we'll see him again (not his dad and we didn't live together) who does this?!
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BattlingFanjos · 02/01/2013 23:48
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